The Myth Of Perfection

I read  a quote the other day which highlighted how people aspire to be perfect and I have contemplated it ever since.  It was a great reminder that a lot of us tend to put a lot of pressure on ourselves to be perceived as close to perfect, however, given the circumstances that surround our lives, we may not be able to reach something that is so unattainable.  Perfection, means that there is absolutely no flaw and we all know that all of us have our own imperfections that make us who we are.  Therefore, it becomes a harrowing experience to be able to live up to a standard that would only bring us disappointment, if we find that we cannot maintain or achieve this illusive target.  What we have to be comfortable with is being in our own skin and not seeking to achieve something that we may perceive as making us happy, when in fact it cannot.  People aspire all the time to be of an ideal weight or to live in a particular type of home, while using that as a barometer of sorts that can measure the level of happiness which can be achieved in their lives.  The truth is we all know that material things will never fill any gaping hole that may be at our inner core, if we have not made peace with our selves.  This is why people can turn to drugs, alcohol, excessive spending, food or any other number of things that can be done in excess, to cover up a problem that exists at the center of their being.  Rather than continuing a cycle that perpetuates unhealthy living or recklessness, it is always best to deal with what ever issue has become the symptom to the true problem.  If you need to make to peace with your past, then be determined to do this.  If it means that you change one little thing everyday until you reach a desired goal, then resolve yourself to be on that journey.  Nothing is worse than remaining stagnant and doing the same thing over and over again, while expecting a different result.   Remember that this unhealthy cycle has been defined as insanity in many instances.  Do your mind, body and spirit a big favor and address the issues that need your attention.  As uncomfortable as the process may seem at first, it is the end result that will bring you some much needed relief, peace and balance back to your life.