I am sharing a column that will be published next month.
Inventing Your Life
By
Rob Claudio
A few weeks ago, I saw a message that reminded me to watch more
sunsets than I do Netflix. I must admit I am a fan of that media web application;
however, it was a jarring moment when I thought back to when was the last
sunset that I was a witness to? As I scoured my brain, it was several
months ago in the late spring when I was traveling in Northern California and I
recall heading back to my hotel from a long day of adventures at a state park,
as the backdrop on my last leg of that journey was a beautiful sunset that
illuminated my drive. I could not believe that it had been several months
since that occurred and I can also confess that I have watched more Netflix
shows in the interim. The sad reality that I had to be reminded about
something wonderful that happens every day and that we all take for granted,
was an excellent point for me to think about being present for all of life's
beautiful moments. A good counterpoint to this was when I was at the
local football park on a recent Saturday morning, after a mad scramble to get
to my nephew's game on time. As I finally sat down and took in the
surroundings, I was just happy to be present among the many families and
friends that came out to support these junior players, along with a very
spirited team of young cheerleaders. I laughed when I saw the coaches get
so excited as they barked out plays and words of encouragement to the little
tykes that had energy for days. I also smiled along with the proud
parents whose child had made a great play, as they all fumbled to take a video
of the moment that had just passed them. It brought to my mind the
commercial of the lady trying to take a picture of the breached whale, as she
misses the opportunity because she was looking for a piece of gum. There
were more moments of joyful laughter for me indeed. Most importantly I was very
pleased to see all the great support provided to these very young athletes, as
they marched to a winning day of playing a beloved game which is as American as
apple pie. As I finally got up to fold up my chair, I did think about the
enjoyment of this afternoon and acknowledged that it was much better than
watching a movie or show on television. The great keepsake of this day
for me, was that real-life experiences while enjoying the simple things in our
everyday lives, are filled with pure joy which can keep your tank of energy
filled up for weeks to come. As you make your way through the busy
itineraries of your life remind yourself if needed, that before you click on
the next social media app on your phone, smart television, laptop or tablet,
life is feeding you spoonfuls of precious and enjoyable moments. Be
grateful for those that bring a smile to your face and take the time to savor
all of it and yes, open your window, sit on your porch or balcony if you have
it and make it a point to watch a beautiful Fall sunset or two, you won't
regret it!
“Get outside. Watch the sunrise. Watch the sunset. How does that make you feel? Does it make you feel big or tiny? Because there's something good about feeling both.”
—Amy Grant
