There are times in life when one has to be assertive in order to achieve a particular goal.   This term should not be confused with being overbearing or confrontational.  Assertiveness means that you are taking the lead and that you are confident as well as positive.  I am fond of this term as it also is the opposite of passivity.  Sometimes in life, we need to take the lead or be a risk taker in order to fulfill an accomplishment.  The ability to use this characteristic with style and grace is what can take some years to acquire.  A side benefit of having an assertive demeanor can lend itself to helping those in need, who perhaps are not strong enough to help themselves.  There a number of opportunities available to lend your talents and when you add the elements of being positive and confident the outcome can be far greater than you imagined.  Challenge yourself to be the role model for others and be undaunted in your ability to serve. We can help bring others along on their journey with a bold assurance that our assertiveness cam allow us to foster.  If you have been passive about something, think of this as your opportunity to change that.  Take the lead and allow yourself to succeed at your intended goal.  In the process, don't forget to look out for others that may need you, as in the future others may be lending you an assertive hand as well.