Engage in the possibility that exists because you are worthy.  I know some people may still be wavering in the land of uncertainty when it comes to what they should expect in their lives.  However, I want to press on with the idea that you are deserving of the good things that have happened in your life and that you should be able to attract even more.  In life we all know that good times occur and so can bad periods.  A sudden loss of someone close to you, an illness that follows and perhaps problems with personal relationships due to the fact that you may be dealing with the prior two issues, are prime examples of what some people can go through.  When I think about those people that handled adversity gracefully, it was always their attitude that stood out as the key to how quickly they were able to bounce back. I posted a quote from Erma Bombeck, a longtime writer and humorist who made the world around her funny by elaborating on her life, primarily as it related to her observations of a suburban housewife.  She appropriately stated, "If you can laugh at it, you can live with it."  These are not only words of wisdom that can help endure some heartache, they can also allow any type of pain to begin to subside.  It is having a grateful and positive attitude, that can sometimes allow you to have the last laugh.  So, life isn't always fair nor is it always a bed of roses, however, it is your perspective that can enable you to walk through a tough period with your head held high and a smile on your face, even when you feel that the world does not deserve it.  I hope that you can allow yourself to feel that you have value and the world is better because you are in it.  It is only a matter of time before you will find that no matter how difficult a situation may become, your attitude will surpass that situation and get you to an even higher level.