Who are you being that causes the reaction of the people around you to be what it is?  This was a question I was contemplating a few days ago.  If you are usually showered with good affection and people give you positive reinforcement, then that means that you must be doing something that is complimentary of this action.  However, if you are getting negative feedback or less than positive reactions from other people, then perhaps it is time to take a moment to go over what your actions are creating.  The Law of Attraction simply says that you attract into your life whatever you think about. Your dominant thoughts will find a way to manifest.  Another description of this has been that like attracts like.  It then becomes important to spend some time meditating what it is that you want to attract to your life along with the intention behind it.  If you treat people poorly, then chances are that you may be attracting this unwanted type of behavior towards you.  We are so consumed with our lives and what is going on in the here and now, that some people may overlook the common everyday instances when they are presented with an opportunity to treat people as they would want to be treated.  A kind word, a kind gesture and a kind smile goes a long way towards eliciting this type of behavior from those that surround you.  Also a simple please or thank you to begin or end a conversation speaks volumes. When given the chance and if people say something or do something that is negative, don't feed into that by replying in the same fashion.  Instead, take the high road and focus on the individuals that did not act this way towards you.  Learn to filter out the poor behavior that may surround you at times and hold yourself to a higher standard.  If you happen to be at work or in other situations where downward spiral conversations are occurring, learn to walk away from them as your time is more valuable and could be better spent.  When you don't contribute to a downward spiral conversation, you also don't take the negative energy with you.  Which means that there is less weight on your shoulders that can find itself to permeate your own thoughts.  Allow your mind, body and spirit to be free of things that are not worth worrying about.  As such, you will find that what you do begin to attract into your life can be those things can fulfill you best while bringing you peace and harmony as well.