The Friendship Connection

It is an interesting experience if you get to live long enough to be able to make friends that span several decades which transcend the many versions of you were through out your lifetime.  What always amazes me is that although time can move along and we get busy with all of life's activities, in a few moments of catching up with these special people, we can fall right back in sync with them as if we were picking up a conversation that occurred a few hours ago.  This is an example of what an endearing friendship can feel like.  I have heard many similar instances where individuals have spoken about these types of relationships and how certain key individuals have made a difference and added value to their lives.  Having examples of how people can add value to you and showing the world that there are folks who are not just takers but contributors can be a great experience.  In one's life there should be some key individuals that can also help lift you up or enable you to stand, when you falter or have life stumbles.  There was a great quote that exemplified this that I read the other day and it simply stated, "Remember, you don't need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends you can be certain of - author unknown."  What is truly captivating about this statement is that it alludes to the quality of people that should be among your inner circle versus the quantity of people that you think you might need.  I think we can all agree that things that come in large masses are not necessarily the best things for us.  Specifically when it comes to people that you feel are the ones that will be there for you in good times or in bad, the number at the end of the day is usually finite.  We can all appreciate the ability to spend some time with those key individuals, especially as time goes on.  I also admire greatly the friends that stay connected where there are many miles in between where they live.  One of the great aspects of technology is the value of social media and other technology where you can now visually speak to people by phone or computer.  I think everyone can appreciate these new mechanisms for communicating and staying connected, no matter how much distance lies in between.  The next time you get the opportunity to have a moment with that special friend, let them know how much you appreciate them.  As time goes on those moments will continue to be treasured and you want to add more to your catalog of great conversations that you can inventory for future fun and laughter.  The connection to lasting friendships can be life long relationships that continue to make you a better person.  My wish is that everyone has the opportunity to experience these and that they realize how special some people are that make you a better version of yourself.